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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 00:55

How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

What measures are shipping companies taking to navigate around conflict zones like the Red Sea and Black Sea?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why can't my adopted sister accept she is not part of my family because she isn't related? Why can't she stop calling my parents mum and dad?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Which document should be pointed out to a holocaust denier?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Do you consider yourself pretty?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why don't I get sleep at nights?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.